Society has a serious "Novelty Syndrome" issue. We are creatures of habit and need routine, yet most of us feel pressure to constantly seek new things, or feel that newness and unfamiliarity will bring more happiness and fulfillment. Novelty syndrome: the tendency to constantly seek novelty, believing it will bring more happiness and fulfillment, while… Continue reading Cure your “Novelty Syndrome”
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Dealing with guilt ~ the bully vs. the wise teacher
Guilt is a tricky thing to deal with. In some ways, it acts as a malicious bully: beating you down for the sake of hurting you. In other scenareos, it can act as a wise teacher: telling you to do the right thing and make healthier choices for yourself and everyone around you. And it… Continue reading Dealing with guilt ~ the bully vs. the wise teacher
Twin flame 🔥
Do we all have more than one soulmate… Yes! A "soulmate" is a person who we feel connected to beyond logical explanation. There is a familiar feeling when you meet them. Soulmates are our best friends, our family, even perhaps our worst enemies! They are people you have strong ties to. If you believe in… Continue reading Twin flame 🔥
Alchemy
I felt a burning fire Deep within, I could not ignore. Running through me, yearning release I know I have been here before. How will this energy express itself? Negative or positive? Or something completely else? Anger is transformed into passion Mix it up and switch the reaction I used to rage And now I… Continue reading Alchemy
Tuesday’s Tea ~ new changes
Today, I'm drinking red raspberry tea. It's super tangy and flavorful, doesn't need any sweetener. Rise to the challenge and accept new changes. There is nothing too grand for you. Never let fear consume you because it is a liar. It will tell you everyone is the enemy when really fear itself is the enemy.… Continue reading Tuesday’s Tea ~ new changes
Flow Friday ~ “No Regrets”
"No regrets" does not necessarily mean that you would repeat the same exact choices you made in the past. In fact, you can be regret-less and still do something differently if given the chance. The difference is this: you've accepted the fact that you cannot go back in time and change things that have already… Continue reading Flow Friday ~ “No Regrets”
Wish Wednesday ~ make a change
"I want to change my life" is a powerful phrase. It carries a lot of weight. If you want to see change in your life, think small before you think big. We crave change when things have either become too comfortable or too uncomfortable. We thrive best when we are balanced. The problem with change… Continue reading Wish Wednesday ~ make a change
prove you wrong
You got me wrong I'll prove you wrong I'll show you who you knew all along
Little signs that you may be going against your intuition
Our conscious mind likes to hide stuff from our unconscious as a way of protecting ourselves, but only short-term. In the long-term of things, it actually severely destroys us. It's not like I'm an expert when it comes to culture -- but I have noticed that the American culture seems to be all about putting… Continue reading Little signs that you may be going against your intuition
One day at a time
It's okay to take it one day at a time. It's okay to completely drop your vision of the future that you held for so long, and trade it in for an open mind with no expectations. Life is full of pain no matter what steps you take, so your choices in life should not… Continue reading One day at a time