My biggest struggle with loving myself is letting others get in the way. I lose focus on myself, and instead I hyper-focus others. When people pull away from me, I take it too personally. It’s nice to appreciate beautiful things about people, but when I take that appreciation too far, I completely forget about my own beauty. I lose my own value while trying to make others feel valuable. And when people cannot give me the same focus in return, it’s a reminder that I struggle with simply focusing on myself.