I’m sick of being an over-giver…

I’m sick of being an over-giver and attracting people who only want to take from me and give back nothing in return. I shouldn’t even have to ask a person to treat me like a human being, rather than an object to be stored away on a shelf and taken out whenever it suits them.Continue reading “I’m sick of being an over-giver…”

Oooofff, I got pulled over… story time!

I woke up too early and I couldn’t fall back asleep. It was last Wednesday. I left the house before 6 AM, maybe 20-30 minutes earlier than normal. I couldn’t believe how dark it was. It’s amazing, the difference between 6 and 6:30 is like night and day. Also, the days are getting darker now.Continue reading “Oooofff, I got pulled over… story time!”

Love is green

Did you know that the color of love is not red — it’s GREEN! …? According to spiritual healers, the color of true love is actually not the bold red we commonly mistake it for, it is green! The body holds seven chakras, going from root to crown, from tailbone to above the head, throughContinue reading “Love is green”

Time will tell… and unveil illusions…

Do you ever notice how people tend to check the time more often when they’re stressed, or losing their minds? Check their phones, their watches, the clock, etc. There’s a reason for that. Constantly checking the time is like grasping onto reality when it’s slipping away. It could also be checking the calendar, checking theContinue reading “Time will tell… and unveil illusions…”

Thoughts on relationships & defending yourself

Today, I’m drinking a chai tea latte, very frothy! My mom would always tell my siblings and me not to date in high school, and she certainly had a point. Dating at such a young age, before you reach adulthood, is honestly dangerous. The whole “high school romance” thing is seriously over-romanticized. Not only areContinue reading “Thoughts on relationships & defending yourself”

Peppermint tea ~ I strive to be the fool! I strive to be the VALOR!

Good morning everyone, and happy Tuesday. Today I’m drinking peppermint tea. Although Christmas is over, it still tastes great for the wintertime. We are coming into the new year now. One of my personal goals last year was to open up more, and I really feel like I have. I’ve learned that I end upContinue reading “Peppermint tea ~ I strive to be the fool! I strive to be the VALOR!”

Top 10 Controversial Lana Del Rey songs

Lana Del Rey has been scorned by the critics over the years as controversial. She has been accused of glamorizing pain and romanticizing abuse. They say she feminizes herself too much, while applauding the strong male archetype that our society has now labeled as “toxic masculinity.” Critics claim she is not progressive enough, steering awayContinue reading “Top 10 Controversial Lana Del Rey songs”

Growing, changing, & healing

I have many things to explain and apologize for. I can’t take 100% of the blame, because I have also suffered greatly and also dealt with a lot of unclear communication. But I will take most of the blame and I am regretful over times I’ve been so cruel. I have never acted out ofContinue reading “Growing, changing, & healing”

The Fear of Anger

The fear of anger is more destructive than anger itself… We get so worried about angering others, or letting others make us angry. But that’s silly, because anger is just one of the many emotions we experience on a daily basis — like sadness, happiness, excitement, anxiety, dread, hope, etc. What’s worse than becoming angryContinue reading “The Fear of Anger”